Only I Know What Is Appropriate for Me
When you remember that everyone who asks is given, then how wonderful and appropriate it is for you to make the choices for you – for the Universe operates much more efficiently without a middleman interceding on your behalf. You always know, in the moment, what is best for you.
I Will Not Attempt to Control Others’ Experiences
Rather than trying to control the experiences of all others (which you cannot do no matter how hard you try), instead, intend to control your own participation within those experiences. And by setting forth your clear image of the life you want to live, you will be guided, in every moment, toward a smooth and pleasant path for yourself.
I Intend to See the Best in Everyone . . .
You can never consistently motivate anybody to anything. But when you see the best of them, and you go over to where your version of the best of them is, and you align with that and offer one signal – now, you are part of the inspiration, you see.
Have you ever had that experience yourself when someone sees you and loves you and expects the best of you? Do you not shine in ways you never shined before? And do you not find it really hard to shine when another does not look for the best in you?
TO DO FOR A DISCONNECTED ONE
When someone is not connected in this moment with who they really are, then your work is cut out for you. Your intent, as you are interacting with this person is to bring them closer to knowing who they are. Which means, appreciation coming from you is in order. Which means, soothing words like, “It will be alright,” and, “This too will pass, things will get better.” Offer your words of reassurance from your place of knowing that all is well, and they will begin to feel it.
Anytime you are interacting with another – their intentions become part of the equation. And only your Inner Being can help you know the integrity of whether their intentions harmonize with yours or not…Always follow that which comes forth from within you.
It is a continual process of seeking your balance, and no one from the outside, no matter who they think they are, has the ability to decide for you the appropriateness of your decision. And when you really know that – then you are free
Impart to your children, “Trust that which comes forth from within you.” You can’t have those rigid rules of what’s right and wrong, because there are so many variables, but you do individually have a Guidance System within you that will always guide you accurately.