Be pleasant have the contact have to have
Don’t push the issue
just let it be
You’ll know when it’s over or when it’s a possibility
Let go of it
You can have the same “6 days” on your own
You’ve got to grow and be self before you can ever be self and J
You’ve got to be self. In and of yourself. And you’re not ready for that.
I’m trying to write the scenario. Make it be the way I want it to be.
“Am I gonna be alone for rest of life with just my cats?” – like that other one – WE DON’T KNOW WHAT’S GONNA HAPPEN TOMORROW
Pathways – the one called FAITH
STAY IN THE NOW. And just be with what’s happening now.
If bug him, won’t work
If want to, rip guts out
Must let go of this. God you’re in charge of this. You know the answer to this. I don’t. Just show me what to do.
Let go is probably the right answer. (Because you have such a reaction to it).
Break heart trying to make relationship work when no participation on othe part.
If he comes to me, different story.
If and when, would be great. But it may not happen.
Can be friends and have the dealings with and be pleasant and who knows.
Don’t build your hopes on it or hard letdown if fails.
Not closing door on it. Asking God for the right answer.
Interact with him like always have.
That may be the way he feels about it right now.
Put it out there
You can have hopes and dreams. Hope that it can happen. Don’t make plans for it to happen.
Don’t start redecorating the bedroom, you know.
Don’t set yourself up.
Holidays are just hard. For most people.
We don’t know what’s going on inside.
Let it unfold way it is
Plan some things that you enjoy
Don’t sit and get all melancholy; get on the pity pot.
Do best can.
24 hour meetings – –
heart to heart
a vision for you
B (Florida now) – has –
Don’t dwell on it.
Hicks… you can want something and be positive about it without obsessing. Just open a positive pathway Hm that might be nice and then put it away. Not just shut door on it
Can’t RELY on it to be a reality.
Any time have negative feeling,
Cont to watch for self dis rest fear
And when crops up, ask God at once
Resolutely turn thoughts to someone can help
Night is 11th step review
Even call M.
Discuss with somebody (in program preferably)
When blocked off from God, defenseless. No telling what might happen decisions etc.
Just boom get rid of it
Then think about somebody you can help.
If works out that way, help him.
If helping somebody else, no way gonna be feeling sorry for self.
Takes practice. Not an overnight thing.
Our brains have been doing same thing same way for long time.
Trying to rewire, not gonna happen overnight.
Don’t get discouraged.